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It is important to guide our children as they grow Jewishly and spiritually, and it is critical that we teach them how to journey: how to ask questions, how to struggle with text, how to honor the way others search, and how to remain vitally engaged in tradition and community.

During community gatherings, care is taken to ensure that our children's voices are heard and respected. As surely as we are our children's teachers, we are also their students, ever learning from their queries and concerns, their joys and imagination.

Sha'ar offers creative programming for children. Innovative initiatives include explorations of Torah and Jewish values through such media as art and theater.

We have created an environment where children can build their own relationship to prayer. During children's services, music and learning are again the means by which we engage and inspire our children to establish their personal relationships with family, community, and God. Sha'ar offers its B'nai Mitzvah children the innovative program "Mosaic of the Mitzvot" which takes children through an odyssey of discovery of their own relationships to community, family, themselves, the planet and God.

The Mosaic of the Mitzvot

Becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah often focuses on the rituals and celebrations of the big day, and not enough on what it means for young adults to assume the full range of responsibilities of leading a Jewish life. Mastering synagogue skills is an important piece of fulfilling the commandments between us and God, Mitzvot Beyn Adam Lamakom, but there is more. Commandments between us and our fellow human beings, Mitzvot Beyn Adam Lechavero, teach us that caring for ourselves involves caring for others as well. Commandments between us and our community, Mitzvot Beyn Adam Lekehillato, sensitize us to the importance of each of us within the life of our communities. Commandments between us and the world, Mitzvot Beyn Adam Le'olamo, instruct us about our role in caring for the environment and sustaining a healthy planet for all of creation. Commandments between us and those from whom we are different, Mitzvot Beyn Adam Le'Achero, guide us in nurturing our own growth as Jews within a diverse and multicultural world.

Join us in this journey of exploration into the multifaceted experience of becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, a son or daughter of the commandments, and staying that way. Each session will be led by Rabbi Adina Lewittes together with guests when appropriate, and will include discussion and reflection. Two parents per group will be asked to volunteer their time during each of the sessions.

The six-session series begins on December 20, 2010 and will run through May 16, 2010. We will be meeting each month on a Sunday morning. The cost of the program is $325.00, and checks can be made payable to Sha'ar.

For More Information contact Alyse Kamara 917-806-7476 or asvk2000@yahoo.com Or email shaarcommunities@gmail.com

Schedule of Sessions:

1. Mitzvot Beyn Adam Lekehillato - Community and Identity
Sunday, December 20, 2010, 9:00-1:30pm
9:00am-10:15am: Introduction to the program and welcome. Breakfast will be served. Private Guided tour of New York City's Jewish Museum's exhibit on Jewish Identity and Culture. Meeting Location: TBA

2. Mitzvot Beyn Adam Lemakom - Us and God
Sunday, January 10, 2010, 9:30am-11:30am
A special event with Sofer/Scribe Jay Greenspan. Explore the mitzvah of tefillin and the role of sacred text in our ritual lives. Location: Solomon Schechter Day School

3. Mitzvot Beyn Adam Le'Acher - Us and the Other
Sunday, February 7, 2010, 9:30am - 11:30am
Learn how to build Jewish identity while building bridges with those of different faith communities. Location: Solomon Schechter Day School

4. Mitzvot Beyn Adam Lechavero
Sunday March 7, 2010
Friendship Circle -a dynamic organization helping families of children with special needs by fostering relationships between teenagers and these children. Our Bnei Mitzvah kids will spend a session playing and interacting with these kids. Time and Location Subject to The Friendship Circle Schedule.

5. Mitzvot Beyn Adam Le'olamo
Sunday, April 18, 2010, 9:30am - 11:30am
Hike through a local nature preserve and explore our responsibility to preserve and protect our environment. Location: Tenafly Nature Center

6. Israel: Bringing It All Home
Sunday, May 16, 2010, 9:30am - 11:30am
Understand the centrality of Israel to our spiritual lives wherever we live. Look back at where we've been and forward to where we're going as Bnai and Bnot Mitzvah. All parents are invited!!! Location:TBA